Episode 398 - Jacob
- Emma + Fin
- Jun 25
- 1 min read
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Jacob and his spouse have been in some form of an open relationship since they got together over 18 years ago. In fact, their relationship actually began as a triad. Today, Jacob takes us along his relationship journey as he and his partner traveled the country living all over and exploring connections and partnerships in their own unique ways.
Jacob is an infant care specialist and an International Board Certified Lactation Consultant (IBCLC) who helps families of all kinds with their lactation needs. He specializes in helping non-gestational parents who want to induce lactation as well as queer, trans, and non-binary parents who have given birth and need support with lactation. Jacob also recently released his first book "Lactation for the Rest of Us - A Guide for Queer and Trans Parents and Helpers." Please check out all of Jacob's work and grab a copy of his book over on his website.
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It's fascinating to hear about Jacob and his partner's journey! Eighteen years is a testament to the communication and intentionality required for open relationships. I especially appreciate his work as an IBCLC, particularly supporting queer, trans, and non-binary families. It highlights the need for specialized care. It reminds me of how communities form around shared interests, like back in the day when everyone was so excited exploring islands together on Poptropica! It's great that Jacob is building a supportive community in his field. I'm keen to check out his book.