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About Us

For us, life is all about seeking out adventure, embracing the chaos, and meeting incredible people along the way. We’re in our late thirties, we met in seventh grade, and we’ve been together since our freshman year of college. Except for that time we broke up for a bit, and that other time we broke up, but after college we seemed to figure it out… Mostly. The reality is, we’re figuring out relationships just like everyone else and they’re not always easy!

Meet Emma & Fin!

About a year into our relationship it was obvious that exploring everything life had to offer was part of who we were as individuals, and as a team. We were so young at the time and neither of us had really experienced the world of dating so we devised a way to explore aspects of the dating world without ending our relationship. We tell most of our own story during the first episode of the podcast or check out some of the other podcasts we’ve been on down below!

Fast forward about a decade and we were growing tired and uninspired with our corporate engineering jobs. So, we did the logical thing and quit our jobs, bought one-way plane tickets to South America, and set off on a journey to find inspiration and excitement.

A month before we got on the plane to South America we launched Normalizing Non-Monogamy and we haven’t looked back since!

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Jacob + Josh
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What is Normalizing Non-Monogamy?

We’ve been exploring non-monogamy ourselves  in different ways since nearly the beginning of our relationship more than twenty years ago. But, this podcast isn’t about us…

We strongly believe there isn’t a “right way” to be non-monogamous or even that non-monogamy is better or more evolved than monogamy or any other relationship style. Every week we interview people from across the spectrum of gender, sexuality, and relationship style to learn from their incredible and powerful personal stories. 

We hope that by sharing the amazing journeys of those who are redefining and pushing the limits of what’s possible in relationships that we can show people that they’re not alone and inspire us all to embrace our true selves so that, together, we can open minds and live authentically without shame.

Our Community

Over the years, Normalizing Non-Monogamy has grown to be much more than just a podcast. We realized early on that people were craving a space where they could be themselves and get support while exploring relationships that they often can’t talk about in their daily lives for many different reasons. 

In 2019 we launched a private community that’s now hosted on Mighty Networks and has grown to over 300 members from around the world. We host virtual workshops, in-person events, monthly virtual community calls, a book club, and so much more!

We’d love to have you join us! 

Workshops and Resources

Member-Led Spaces

Virtual Connection

Events

Private Community App

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Collaborations

You can also find us featured on podcasts like: 

Multiamory

Imperfect Polyamory, Personal Growth, and Emotional Labor

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Playing with Fire

Finding Your People

Sleeping Around

A Beginner’s Guide to

Non-Monogamy

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